Ask yourself these questions before you communicate your expectations to your child.
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Are you asking?
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If the answer is no, is that okay?
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"Okay?" is Okay! (but consider asking without it)
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NO
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How important is the demand? Are you willing to fight/punish?
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This isn't something you need to demand.
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YES
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Phrase this as a polite demand.
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