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A SelectSmart.com Gay & Lesbian Selector by MsWorthy, created May 2001. Are you confused about what type of D/s relationship would suit you best? Use the D/s mate selector to help you narrow down the type of domme or sub you are and what you need to look for in a relationship. Get your result(s) plus info about it.
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1. Do you consider yourself dominant?
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2. Do you consider yourself submissive?
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3. Do you fantasize about non-sexual scenes?
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4. Have you used self-bondage techniques?
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5. Do you find yourself wanting to give advice to others?
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6. Do you find yourself wanting to ask advice from others?
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7. Do you like making decisions because you feel you can see pros and cons?
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8. Do you chat in the BDSM chatrooms often?
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9. Do you research D/s?
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10. Do you wish for someone to make most of the decisions?
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11. Have past relationships failed because you were too controlling?
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12. Do you find that other people push you to lose your temper?
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13. Does it make you feel fulfilled when you take care of someone who is sick or disabled?
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14. As a domme, do you ever fantasize about being forced sexually?
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15. Are you frustrated when you cannot orgasm?
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16. As a domme, do you find yourself sometimes attracted to another domme?
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17. As a sub, do you sometimes want to take control?
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18. Do you always take time to look at a problem from all sides even if someone is impatient with you?
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19. Are you flexible and feel that life can ebb and flow and still feel comfortable?
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20. Do you feel you have hide your true nature when you are in public?
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21. Are you happy when you meet a domme who will not play with you?
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22. Do you feel happy when a submissive e-mails to thank you for the time spent together when sex was not discussed?
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23. As a domme, do you worry about moving too close to a limit?
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24. Are you happy with a partner who only gives in to you in bed?
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