2. A close friend of yours is struggling with their marriage. A divorce seems inevitable. Which of the following is your most likely response to show the person you care about them?
You go to their home and listen to them one-on-one for an afternoon.
You affirm them, letting them know that they have done all they can in the most loving way possible.
You make them a basket of a few of their favorite things and take it to them.
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3. You are driving along with your spouse when you have an accident that is completely your fault. Which of the following responses from your spouse would make you feel the most loved?
They simply say "it's ok".
They give you a hug and remind you that cars can be replaced.
They take it upon themselves to call the insurance, police, and have the car taken in for repairs.
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4. It is your birthday. Which of the following is the best gift you could receive?
A card telling you how much you mean to someone.
A sentimental item that reminds you of someone special to you.
Being taken out to your favorite restaurant and a movie you have been wanting to see for weeks one-on-one with a close friend.
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5. If you showed up at a close friend's house and their sink was full of dishes, would you take it upon yourself to wash them?
Yes
No
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6. Which of the following choices most characterizes how you would show love to a small child?
Bringing them their favorite candy bar.
Patting them on the back.
Helping them make a really special project for school.
Taking them to an event of their choosing (baseball game, etc.), just the two of you.
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7. Think about your relationship with your significant other. Which of the following sounds like the ideal weeknight evening together?
Cuddling on the couch watching TV.
Going on a walk together at sunset.
An evening in the bed having passionate sex.
Having your spouse cook you your favorite dinner.
A surprise night in a hotel with all the fixings: great dinner, champagne, and breakfast in bed the following morning.
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8. In general, are phone conversations a suitable alternative for one-on-one time with friends you live relatively close to?
Yes
No
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9. Which of the following would bless you most?
A surprise visit from a friend just to hang out and talk.
An unexpected compliment about how wonderful you look that day.
An unexpected house repair or clean up when you are busy.
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10. Which of the following would you be most likely to do for a close friend that is distressed and lives four hours away from you?
Drive up for the weekend to spend time with them.
Mail them a gift that you know they would like.
Arrange for them to have something that needs to be done completed out of your own pocket.
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