by Ponderer on July 7, 2023 10:37 am
As I have said before, no one who isn't really transsexual should transition or get SRS.
In my early transition days I facilitated a support group at our local gay and lesbian center. There were usually about a dozen regulars and others that would come and go. There were some of them that even I could tell weren't really good candidates for transition, let alone reassignment surgery.
There was one regular I recall who never even came to the meetings in "girl mode" and hadn't even started with a therapist yet. Poor thing was never going to "pass", even with millions of dollars worth of plastic surgery and a voice box transplant. But she declared one day, "If I can't get SRS someday soon I'm gonna kill myself." Believe me, from everything we heard about her life, her supposed transgederism was the LAST mental issue she needed to address. To this day, I hope she never tried to go through with it.
Another gal who only came for a few sessions was "semi" post op, meaning she only had her testicles removed. A state I share with her, BTW. She seemed quite fine and normal, until we heard her story of how she got the orchiectomy. She had it all planned out and when her family was away for the day, she took her .22 rifle and managed to blow one of her testicles off. She said she couldn't even feel it at first and thought that she might have missed. She hadn't. She told the police and paramedics that she was cleaning her gun and it went off (Not that anyone could figure out how you clean your rifle with the barrel resting on one of your testicles. They all figured it was a botched suicide attempt). The doctors were sorry that they couldn't save the other one, but she was rather happy with the situation. It was her way of starting her transition without really coming out. But I'm guessing she had other mental problems to boot.
A close friend at the time told me the story of when she got her SRS at a clinic in Canada. The doctor was one of maybe four or five in the world whose name probably every TS in the world was familiar with back then. The clinic had a van that would pick up patients at the airport and take them to the clinic. My friend told me that as the van with her and three or four other patients was traveling down the freeway to the clinic, the gal next to the door suddenly swung it open and leapt out of the van, killing herself pretty much instantly. Who knows what torturous mental demons she was dealing with, but she was obviously not ready for, or even a good candidate for SRS.
No one should ever get SRS without going through a rigorous and well established evaluation period to assure that it's the right course of action.
It's really that simple.
by HatetheSwamp on July 8, 2023 3:07 pm
As I have said before, no one who isn't really transsexual should transition or get SRS.
Bang on, po, and, if I understand the anti-TQ LGB movement, its cconcern is that so much indoctrination is taking place, particularly in public schools and often behind parents' backs, that minors are facing pressure from untrained, idealistic trans-phile activists. The result is that minors are being prescribed drugs and even undergoing surgery when they are valid candidates.
I'll say again. Almost no one hates transgender people and nearly all of us think transphobia is disgusting.
What an increasingly large number of people oppose is the woke trans political agenda and trans ideology.