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Should you leave your partner?

                 
Has your partner ever hit you?
 
 
Is there broken trust in the relationship?
 

NO

YES




NO

NO

YES

Does your partner isolate you from your family and friends? Have you been avoiding them? Does he make it difficult for you to see them ie won't give you a lift, sulks, makes a scene etc. Does he constantly put them down?
YES
LEAVE. Domestic and family violence takes many forms. It involves violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour carried out to control, dominate or instil fear. It doesn’t have to be physical abuse. It can be emotional, psychological, financial, sexual or other types of abuse. There is NO excuse for violence.
If you asked to see WHO he is contacting via facebook/ sms/ email/ work email (but not read the messages) would he freak out?
Do you want to leave him for someone else?
YES
You might want to see a professional to work through this issue. It's complicated and life isn't black and white.

NO

YES

NO

YES

NO


NO

YES

Does your partner make you feel bad about yourself? Does he put you down? Does he make you feel bad about things?
MASSIVE RED FLAG.
YES
Has he cheated on you with any of your friends?
Do you two want very different things in life right now? Do you feel out of sync?
Probably leave. You have your own life to live.

NO

YES

YES

YES

NO



NO

YES
Is there a difference in the way he treats you in public and private?
NO
Is he controlling over money? Especially when it's your money?
NO
Does he go through your stuff without permission?
 
Is he addicted to something that has come between the two of you? Xbox, gambling, alcohol, etc.