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Will the outcome of this conflict matter tomorrow
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Does the conflict have an absolute right/wrong answer?
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Are there circumstances that confuse the interpretation of right and wrong?
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Is the conflict a "root" conflict? Or, is there another conflict that is causing me to argue for argument's sake
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Are you on the right side?
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Are you treating the person you are in conflict with respect? (the way you would hope to be treated?
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Are you remaining calm and clearly stating your reasons for your position?
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Can you identify what the root cause is?
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Are there circumstances that make doing the "right" thing not a good solution right now?
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Can you clearly and calmly explain why the "right" thing may be wrong right now?
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Can you solve that problem quickly? By acknowledging it?
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Are you willing to let go of the current conflict?
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Take a deep breath. Explain that there are probably bigger issues than this one and that you should decide on a time to discuss that issue. But right now you're going to let go of this conflict and move forward.
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